A Typical Day At Our House

I love routine. Who doesn't really? It gives you structure, something to plan by, and peace of mind. For me, knowing that I will be able to grab a shower during the early morning nap and that I can do some cleaning and tidying during the afternoon nap is comforting. Of course not every day does life go perfectly as planned or according to schedule. When I was doing lots of pre-baby reading, I noticed how each author stressed getting your baby on a schedule. With a schedule they know what to expect, and there find comfort in that.  So with that said, here is our daily schedule. It is what works for us. 

7:00 AM  We wake up, do a diaper change, and Nora nurses.

7:30 AM   Head down stairs for me to make a cup of coffee and eat my oatmeal or yogurt and granola. Nora usually plays in her exer-saucer. I turn the today show on for about an hour usually. This is the only time during the day we have the tv on, but it's my guilty pleasure.

9:00 AM   Nora's first nap of the day. She usually nurses again before going down for her nap. In order to keep the mess to a minimum, I clean up the toys and books right after I put her down. I know we will get them back out, but if I take 5 minutes to tidy up three times a day things don't seem to get out of control. Then I will usually blog, do laundry, clean some bathrooms or floors, or shower. 

10:30 AM   Nora wakes up. Quick diaper change and we will read books for about 30 min. Then we do snack time for her which is usually pear and apple puree. Followed up by playtime and lots of laughs.

12:00 PM   Time for another nap. Nora will nurse again and go down for a 2 - 2 1/2 hour nap! I then usually do what I didn't get to do during the first nap, walk the dog, and eat some lunch. 

2:00 PM   Nora gets up and is usually in a great mood. We play, snap some pictures and she will nurse. 

3:00 PM   We will go out to run errands, go walk at the walking track, or go to the library to gets some new books to read. 

4:30 PM   Ryan usually gets home and he takes over while I do laundry or something I couldn't do during the day and start dinner.

5:30 PM   Dinner Time. Sometimes Nora will sit and play in her high chair and we can all eat a normal dinner, but sometimes its the typical new parent: I eat super fast while he holds Nora and switch. Then its dishes and play time. We like to turn on some jams and make this time all about fun.

6:30 PM   BATH TIME! Which in Nora's book is the best part of the day. I am pretty sure she is a fish reincarnated. (just kidding)  She splashes and we laugh. As soon as she comes out of the bath it's lotion, diaper, pjs, and nursing. And this little baby is off to Dream Land by 7:30 PM.

7:30 PM   Finish up the housework, and start washing the diapers (if it's a diaper washing night).

8:00 PM   We usually will talk about our day, watch a TV series, or read.

10:00 PM   Goodnight! Time to rest up for another day.

Whew that makes me tired just typing it. :) 

What is your day like? 

Do you do anything to make life easier on you?

Nora at 6 Months

Wow! How is my baby half a year old already? Time goes by way too fast, and while I love to see her grow, learn, and develop, its sad to think I don't have that tiny newborn anymore. 

Height: 24 inches (~8th percentile)

Weight: 14lbs 6oz (~18th percentile)

You like: apple mango baby food, piano music, dancing, all kinds of toys, riding in the stroller, playing on the changing table, riding on daddy's shoulders, reaching for anything that isn't a toy, and chewing on everything.

You are still nursing every 3 hours and haven't seen a bottle in months.

You have two bottom front teeth!

You are just now fitting into your 6 month clothes, but can still wear 3-6 month clothes.

I am not sure who you look more like now, but who cares because you are so gosh darn cute!

We are so thankful to have you in our lives. You make my days brighter (and sometimes my nights longer). Maybe you could take the next 6 months a little slower this time? Please?

The Baby Learning Curve

"You didn't mention you were new at this."

You think babies learn fast? I would argue that new moms learn even faster. In just one week with you new little one, you learn what their different cries mean, how they want to be held when they are fussy or sleepy, and the list goes on.

You know that saying, "People who know everything about parenting are the ones who have never been parents." It couldn't be more true. I read almost every book I could get my hands on when I was pregnant, and I was pretty sure I had this whole baby thing figured out. Nora has taught me more over the past 5 months than those books taught me in 9 months. Don't get me wrong they were helpful but nothing is a better way to learn than actually doing. 

Since Nora was born there are somethings that I learned or figured out that really make being a new mom easier. I wish I would have learned them earlier, but that's what being a NEW MOM is all about... a learning curve. Oh well next time I'll know, Right? Or maybe not! HA

Nursing Aids

We all have heard "breast is best" and most women want nothing more than to be able to nurse their new little one, but sometimes it is hard. Nora was so small that she would not latch on. Did you know they make this thing called a Nipple Shield?! It really is awesome. It reduced the chapping greatly along with lots of Lanolin. (Don't leave the hospital with out lots of this!) It also made it so she could nurse. She eventually just didn't need it anymore, but while we used it it made nursing much more pleasant. I also learned that the best way to avoid mastitis is to empty yourself when you feel full. I thought there would be like a magic formula to tell you when you needed to pump, but really it's called listening to your body. I pumped when I was full (which was sometimes 3-4 times a day) and I still had plenty to feed nora. I also think it really helped to establish my supply! I learned to seek out help in the form of the lactation consultant, my mom, or even friends who had been exactly where I was. 

Plan Ahead

Before I had Nora I was not the kind of person to plan ahead. I would pack for a big trip the night before. That just doesn't work when you have a baby that needs to eat every 2-3 hours.

In the beginning Nora would eat on average every 2 1/2 hours!! That meant that if I was not ready to hop in bed after her 8 o'clock feeding, I would only get a little over an hour of sleep before I was up feeding again. So I would get ready for bed, have the diaper change all laid out and the pump clean and hooked up and then feed her. 

Another way I learned to plan ahead is have snack and my water bottle on the night stand so that I could refuel and hydrate while I was feeding. Nursing makes makes me so hungry and I knew to keep the best milk for Nora I needed good snacks. You also have to eat meals. No skipping lunch because you were too busy... Cook extra for dinner, put a lunch size serving in a container and heat it up! It's so important not to neglect your body when you are nursing and planning ahead made that so much easier.

Work on sleep habits at nap time

If Nora had napped in my arms all day, how could I expect her to go to sleep in her crib that night. At about 2 1/2 months we transitioned to her sleeping in the crib. I started with nap time and it wasn't long until bedtime was a breeze! Each time she fell asleep on her own in the crib during the day would reinforce that skill for the next time. Babies have to learn that their crib is just as safe as your arms. I'm not going to lie the first time it took over 30 minutes for her to fall asleep. I never got her out of the crib, but just soothed her every time she would cry. Each nap took less soothing than the last. I also learned that if I tried to fight the sleep battle at 11:30 at night I was just too tired and so was she. We BOTH were in a better state to learn how this whole sleep thing works during the day.

Well... Nora is 5 months and I am still trying to figure this whole mom thing out. Like when do you take a shower? or better yet how do you find time to go to the gym? 

I have a feeling I'll be learning for the next 18 years.